Life is too short...
... to hold a grudge
... to not tell someone you love them
... to waste time being angry about things you can't change
... to wait to make a difference
... to say "I'll do it tomorrow"
... to tell the kids "We'll do that next week"
... to wait and take that trip another time
... to not ask or offer forgiveness.
... to be in a relationship that brings you down
... to worry about what others will think
... to worry - either you can do something about or you can't
... to regret what you did that you can't change
... to not do what you are passionate about
... to not enjoy today
... to not care about your health.
... to wait
... for unnecessary "drama"
... to not mean what you say and say what you mean
Source: Post by Loxly
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51 Hours left to live
There is an incredible discussion happening on Reddit with a man who has about 2 days left to live and he decided to share his wisdom with everyone. Here is a link to it: 51 hours left to live
I just wanted to re-post some of his quotes and question and answers below:
"nothing we have is worth hurting anyone else for. It's all fleeting people. Stop seeing race, color, sex, religion, etc.... They're all just people, and if you try to love them you won't lose anything."
To a question are you scared of dieing? Lucidening (original poster) replied:
- Terrified, but I won't ever tell my family that. I hope it doesn't hurt
Another redditor replied with a Socrates quote:
"To fear death, my friends, is only to think ourselves wise, without being wise, for it is to think that we know what we do not know. For anything that men can tell, death may be the greatest good that can happen to them, but they fear it as if they knew quite well that it was the greatest of evils. And what is this but that shameful ignorance of thinking that we know what we do not know?"
To a person who plans on committing a suicide Lucidening has to say this:
- "I would tell him that it's not living that's failed him, it's life. We can always change our life as long as were living. He's addressing the wrong issue".
Q: A lot of people oppose death with dignity, labeling them "doctor assisted suicide". Do you have any words that might convince people who oppose it why you chose this option?
A: Yes, I do. Why do they oppose peoples right to not suffer? It takes numerous doctors to get here ensuring no one uses this option recklessly. My care is a huge burden to my loved ones, and it's not fair to position your suspicions over their realities.
Q: any regrets?
A: Yes, one. I bought my high school sweetheart an engagement ring and never gave it to her. Life happened, meaning in was dumb. I went in the military after a dumb fight and.... Yeah just one
Q: proudest moment?
A:Finishing my masters degree, from a hospital bed. First person in my family to get one!
Q:What would be your advice on taking chances and meeting new people? Or on Fear?
A: what long term risk is there in saying hello? I can't find any. Worst case, is you get some possessive asshole that thinks your hitting on his sister and you get a black eye. Total pain and shame lasts maybe a month. Meeting the right girl though lasts forever. So you tell me, would you trade a month of shame for a life of happiness?
I just wanted to re-post some of his quotes and question and answers below:
"nothing we have is worth hurting anyone else for. It's all fleeting people. Stop seeing race, color, sex, religion, etc.... They're all just people, and if you try to love them you won't lose anything."
To a question are you scared of dieing? Lucidening (original poster) replied:
- Terrified, but I won't ever tell my family that. I hope it doesn't hurt
Another redditor replied with a Socrates quote:
"To fear death, my friends, is only to think ourselves wise, without being wise, for it is to think that we know what we do not know. For anything that men can tell, death may be the greatest good that can happen to them, but they fear it as if they knew quite well that it was the greatest of evils. And what is this but that shameful ignorance of thinking that we know what we do not know?"
To a person who plans on committing a suicide Lucidening has to say this:
- "I would tell him that it's not living that's failed him, it's life. We can always change our life as long as were living. He's addressing the wrong issue".
Q: A lot of people oppose death with dignity, labeling them "doctor assisted suicide". Do you have any words that might convince people who oppose it why you chose this option?
A: Yes, I do. Why do they oppose peoples right to not suffer? It takes numerous doctors to get here ensuring no one uses this option recklessly. My care is a huge burden to my loved ones, and it's not fair to position your suspicions over their realities.
Q: any regrets?
A: Yes, one. I bought my high school sweetheart an engagement ring and never gave it to her. Life happened, meaning in was dumb. I went in the military after a dumb fight and.... Yeah just one
Q: proudest moment?
A:Finishing my masters degree, from a hospital bed. First person in my family to get one!
Q:What would be your advice on taking chances and meeting new people? Or on Fear?
A: what long term risk is there in saying hello? I can't find any. Worst case, is you get some possessive asshole that thinks your hitting on his sister and you get a black eye. Total pain and shame lasts maybe a month. Meeting the right girl though lasts forever. So you tell me, would you trade a month of shame for a life of happiness?